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AROUND THE WORLD IN 18 MONTHS: JESSICA
MCHUGH '99 FOLLOWS A DREAM TO 12 COUNTRIES AND FOUR CONTINENTS
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Jessica McHugh '99 exploring the ruins
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Ta Prohm in Cambodia |
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In February 2005, I resigned from my
managerial position with the American Red Cross. The office, the
cell phone, and the meetings were all left behind.
I had six years of successful work experience at non-profits in
Philadelphia since graduating from Haverford College in 1999. Everything
from organizing direct community service projects to managing millions
of dollars, I had done it. And I was one of the youngest managers,
if not the youngest, in the American Red Cross region that I served.
There was no reason for me not to continue doing so…except
for a dream.
In February 2005, I sold everything I owned and boarded a plane
headed to South America. I spent the next 18 months traveling around
the world, experiencing life and culture in 12 countries and four
continents.
I had planned and saved for my travels for nearly two years, but
had never anticipated the way my trip would affect my life.
I didn’t know I would spend seven months in Spanish-speaking
countries learning and communicating in the native language (and
finally understanding that immersing yourself in a culture really
is the best way to learn another language).
I didn’t know I would swim with sea lions off the coast of
the Galapagos Islands, or eat tarantulas in Phnom Penh.
I didn’t know I would be trapped in a remote village in the
jungle along the Burmese border, or that I would be charged by an
elephant.
I didn’t know I would learn backgammon in the middle of Turkey
from a Kurdish man whose only English words were “good good,”
“no go,” and “champion.”
I didn’t know I would see Iguazu Falls under the light of
a full moon, or climb to the top of Waynu Picchu in Peru.
I didn’t know I would teach English
for several weeks in rural Cambodia, or swim in a tributary of the
Amazon River in Ecuador, later finding out there were caymans among
us but “not the people-eating kind.”
I didn’t know I would be the lead volunteer at a rescued elephant
sanctuary in the jungles of northern Thailand for two months. Or
that I would continue working for them when I returned home by crafting
the organization’s message and designing their new website
at www.ElephantNatureFoundationOnline.com.
In college, I never had a chance to study abroad. Neither I nor
my family could afford it because I had to work during the school
year to help pay the bills. After graduation, it never occurred
to me to travel. It seemed too expensive and, as silly as it may
sound, too impossible to achieve. Even a trip to Europe seemed like
a crazy idea to me. After all, I was a recent graduate saddled with
hefty student loan payments and a tiny paycheck from a local non-profit.
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| Jessica
and her fiance Tim shortly after getting engaged in
Fethiye, Turkey |
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As the years passed, I became restless. I enjoyed my work in Philadelphia,
but I felt like I was missing something. I knew I wanted to return
to school to earn a master’s degree in international politics,
but that seemed absurd to me given I had never even left the country
before.
It was March 2003 when my boyfriend Tim and I were sitting outside
a Dairy Queen in Narberth enjoying our blizzards.
Glancing over at him, I blurted out, “Do you want to travel
the world with me? I don’t know how to do it, but I think
we could. And if you say yes, then we have to do this. We can’t
let anything get in our way. Maybe it’ll get postponed for
a bit, but if we agree to it right now, then it has to happen one
day.”
Taken by surprise for only the briefest of moments, Tim looked at
me and said, “Absolutely. Let’s do it. Let’s promise
to make this happen.”
And so we promised, and thus an idea began to take life. Months
of preparing, researching, saving, and dreaming passed. We originally
planned for a three-month trip, which eventually turned into a six-month
trip. But as our departure date drew closer, we realized we had
enough money saved to travel for 12 months. And so when the calendar
read March 2005, we kissed our families goodbye and told them we’d
see them the following year, in February 2006.
Although we had researched many places prior to our departure, our
trip was very organic. We allowed our instincts and our experiences
in each village or city to determine our next destination. Countries
were cut, countries were added. Stays were extended and shortened.
We never booked a room ahead of time. Instead we showed up in each
new place and hit the streets with our backpacks on, looking for
a place we could call home for a few nights or, in some cases, a
few months.
It didn’t take long for us to become addicted to the traveling
lifestyle. The idea of returning home in February 2006 seemed unappealing.
There was an entire world to see, and very little time to see it.
We discovered we were slow travelers, preferring to see less places
deeply, instead of more places quickly, and we wanted more time
to take it slow. And so, with some juggling of the budget, we extended
our trip from 12 months to 18 months.
We traveled too many miles to count by foot, car, minivan, bus,
train, motorcycle, boat, plane, inflatable tire, bamboo raft, tuk-tuk,
canoe, river taxi, and balloon. We met hundreds of people, locals
and travelers alike, and made many lasting friendships along the
way. We had thousands of experiences, all of them memorable in one
way or another, and never once did we regret a choice to turn this
way or that way. Every way took us someplace new, and every place
taught us something new.
When I was around 17 years old, I wrote a Life’s To Do list.
I clearly remember writing “travel around the world”
and I clearly remember thinking, “This will probably never
happen.”
When I asked Tim to travel the world with me, I had no idea we had
started down the path towards achieving a dream. I had no idea the
number of things we would have to navigate to accomplish it. And
I certainly had no idea what it would feel like to finally achieve
it.
Before my travels, I didn’t even own a passport. Now my passport
is filled with stamps from around the world.
Before my travels, I struggled with Spanish. Now I speak it with
confidence, along with a smattering of Turkish, Lao, Thai, and Khmer.
Before my travels, I studied international politics in college.
But I had never spoken firsthand to a survivor of genocide. I had
never walked in a place of learning that had been used as a place
of horror and torture. And I had never had someone tell me, “First
they killed my father, and then they killed my brother and my sister.”
My trip around the world changed my life in more ways than I can
count. I think it will be several years before I know how the experience
has shaped me.
Now that we’re home again, we have more dreams stirring in
our minds. Dreams to return to the friends we made around the world.
Dreams to travel to new places. Dreams for me to finally attend
graduate school.
Occasionally I’ll feel myself think, “This will probably
never happen.”
But now I know better than to listen to such thoughts. Because those
dreams that are the most meaningful to us are achievable, no matter
what or where in the world it is that we dream.
—Jessica McHugh '99
Although their trip may be over, the storytelling has just begun.
To read more about Jessica’s and Tim’s travels around-the-world,
check out www.HedgehogsWithoutBorders.com.
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